Gay worker claims Facebook 'like' got him fired

A former employee at the Library of Congress is claiming he was fired after he "liked" a Facebook page for same-sex parents, an act he says led to his boss discovering he is gay. WRC-TV's Jim Handly reports.

A former management analyst at the Library of Congress is claiming he was fired after he "liked" a Facebook page for same-sex parents, an act he says led to his boss discovering he is gay. 

Peter TerVeer liked the “Two Dads” page on Facebook, a group that helps “promote the gay and lesbian community,” according to the page. 

When his manager, John Mech, discovered he was gay, TerVeer’s once-positive performance reviews turned negative, he alleges, and his boss started making derogatory statements about his sexual orientation, according to TerVeer's attorney Thomas Simeone.

Simeone would not comment on details of the case, but a Roll Call article published Tuesday said shortly after TerVeer liked the Two Dads page:

TerVeer said he started to receive emails from Mech that contained ‘religiously motivated harassment and discrimination.’ Mech then called him into a meeting for the purposes of ‘educating him on hell and that it awaited him for being a homosexual.’

TerVeer's therapist ordered him to take medical leave because of the stress, Simeone said. He was fired last week for missing 37 consecutive days of work.

A spokeswoman for the Library of Congress said she could not comment on personnel matters. But the Library released a statement saying, “Library of Congress employees, like all employees in the federal government, have protection against workplace discrimination under Title VII of the Civil Rights Act. Library employees who believe they have been subjected to discrimination may avail themselves of an internal administrative process to address their equal employment opportunity complaints.”

TerVeer filed a claim with Library of Congress’ Equal Employment Opportunity Complaints Office, Simeone said. The office has until mid-May to make a ruling. After that, TerVeer can take his case to the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission. EEOC spokeswoman Christine Nazer would not comment on the case.

Even though sexual orientation discrimination was part of the case, Simeone said his client will fight the termination based on religious bias. He said laws protecting workers against sexual orientation discrimination are limited and provide few, if any, remedies for compensating workers in cases like TerVeer's.

Whatever the outcome, it’s a wake-up call for employees who may not yet understand the extent to which their social media participation can impact their careers. The question of what’s private and what’s not on social networking sites is rearing its head in the workplace more often.

This month Maryland became the first state to ban the practice of asking for a job candidate or worker's social networking password; and Illinois is considering similar legislation, said Daniel Prywes, an employment attorney for Bryan Cave.  “The proposed bills would broadly prohibit employers from seeking access to private areas of social media accounts, with no exceptions for law enforcement or similar sensitive types of employment.”

Facebook has threatened to “take action to protect the privacy and security of our users” in cases where employers seek passwords.

While most companies don’t cyber snoop on workers and job candidates, it can be legal for your employer to mine your social media meandering and take adverse action against you for something on your Facebook or LinkedIn, as long as your employer doesn’t thwart discrimination laws or collective bargaining rights.

Discuss this issue on our Facebook page. But remember, your boss might be reading.

 

 

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Ya, one could have guessed there was going to be a law suit very soon when it comes to face booking.

If it is true that there are NO OTHER changes that happened in the work place, then I hope he takes the company to the cleaners.

  • 61 votes
#1 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 7:40 AM EDT
Comment author avatarlisa-3322183Restored

He should get nothing. He missed 37 consecutive days of work. Gee, would you still have a job after that? I think not. People are getting fired for social media. He chose to engage in that, so be it. Find a new job dude.

  • 62 votes
#1.1 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 8:38 AM EDT

lisa

Did he just miss 37 days of work? Or was he on leave? It doesn't say. The article said he should take some medical leave. If he just took off for 37 days without using his vacation/medical leave. Then yes he should be fired.

  • 37 votes
#1.2 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 9:15 AM EDT

He missed 37 consecutive days of work because of stress from harassment his employer was legally responsible for preventing. If he proves the harassment, he should take his employer to the cleaners. If an employer doesn't want to get sued, they might consider enforcing their own work policies.

  • 64 votes
#1.3 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 9:22 AM EDT

lisa-3322183, engaging in social media activity is no more grounds for being fired than is socializing at a cocktail party or a barbecue. It's what you DO and SAY that brings possible grounds for dismissal. If your vegetarian boss finds out via Facebook that you eat meat, and she calls you into her office to lecture you on the immorality of meat eating and eventually fires you, you'll just "find a new job, dudess"? I doubt it.

  • 37 votes
#1.4 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 9:23 AM EDT

"Gee, would you still have a job after that? "

When a supervisor tells me about "going to hell" at a company meeting and sends email saying the same, then NO, the supervisor should not still have a job after that.

  • 74 votes
#1.5 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 9:28 AM EDT

I agree, he should have been fired if he "missed" 37 consecutive days. If he was on sick leave and/or vacation, no.

However, I would have decked the boss anyway if he/she had called me into his/her office and started spouting that hypocritical religious dogma crap into my face.

If he/she chooses to believe in that campfire storyline from our uncivilized past, that's his/her choice. Don't try to force feed that pap to me on the job. The boss should keep that religious bugaboo stuff at home.

  • 49 votes
#1.6 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 9:42 AM EDT

This month Maryland became the first state to ban the practice of asking for a job candidate or worker's social networking password;

Why not ask for their banking information so a prospective employer can track where you go after work.

I have said this once and I will say it again. This country is done. We'll never pay back our debt and that is the plan anyway. Time for the new world order brought to you by George Soros and friends.

  • 16 votes
#1.7 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:19 AM EDT
Comment author avatarlisa-3322183Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

Oh the poor boy was stressed and couldn't hack it. Gotta love this sue happy state of mind many people buy into. He does not deserve to be compensated because he got fired. Buck up little camper and go find a new job.

  • 27 votes
#1.9 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:26 AM EDT

I can't publicly comment on this. All the ladies I work with at the fashion shows think I'm gay, if they found out I'm not, they would stop walking around in front of me naked. It's a sacrifice I can live with.

  • 84 votes
#1.10 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:32 AM EDT

lmao - good one Darth

  • 11 votes
#1.11 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:36 AM EDT

Most males who work at a Library are gay. I am one of the few hetersexuals who works at a library. So him saying that he got fired because he is gay, I find it very hard to believe because of the library culture.

  • 16 votes
#1.12 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:43 AM EDT

I believe the story says the guy was on medical orders to take leave. Would that not fall under FMLA as well?

  • 13 votes
#1.13 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:43 AM EDT

@Jazz and others,

The guy was a management analyst at the Library of Congress, not a librarian. He is a Federal employee and as such, has a fair amount of protection against religiopus harrassment.

  • 19 votes
#1.14 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:00 AM EDT

@sharonhughes4me, Ignorance at its finest.

@Lisa-3322183, *smacks forehead*

@Jazz-3117301, Where's the data on that which you base your stereotype off of...

  • 14 votes
#1.15 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:03 AM EDT

Well, thanks for your run down there Trent. We all have the right to our opinions whether you agree with them or not.

You really should come down from your soap box, I think you are getting a bloody nose. :)

  • 12 votes
#1.16 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:20 AM EDT

The indisputable fact of this case is that the employee missed thirty-seven days without leave; everything else amounts to nothing more than here-say and conjecture.

This is just another example of the biggest problem with affording class status to anyone; a pervasive sense of entitlement. If the powers that be were ever stupid enough to afford class status based on something do you might as well kiss the Constitution good-bye.

  • 9 votes
#1.17 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:22 AM EDT

Hey, who do I sue for having my comment collapsed???? Seriously, I need 37 days off to recover from this stress.

  • 20 votes
#1.18 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:29 AM EDT

Got your blood boiling with an emote aye?

    #1.19 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:34 AM EDT

    I really hate these comment boards... it truly brings out the idiotic comments...

    Such as: "Oh the poor boy was stressed and couldn't hack it. Gotta love this sue happy state of mind many people buy into. He does not deserve to be compensated because he got fired. Buck up little camper and go find a new job." ~ This person has NO CLUE what's going on in the world today...

    And the one about Mars... Jesus... If people could get fired for their comments on a topic such as this.... OMG the unemployment rate would be astronomical... But hey, there would be plenty of openings for those who were unjustly fired...

    • 17 votes
    #1.20 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:35 AM EDT

    If he was on a medical leave- he should not have been fired. If he didn't bother to follow the guidelines his workplace has (usually it requires paperwork) for getting a medical leave and simply didn't show up for work... then he should be fired.

    People need to remember that Facebook and other social medias are easily accessible to anyone interested in finding out things about you. Unless you make effort to keep the information private... assume everyone can see it. Bosses, potential clients, cops, church members, in-laws, stalkers, people you rub the wrong way can get information from these things. Each person has a right to access anything you put down under "PUBLIC". It's up to you to ensure the settings.

    • 3 votes
    #1.21 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:41 AM EDT

    JeremyH1982: you said:

    I really hate these comment boards... it truly brings out the idiotic comments...

    Do you know the meaning of the word irony ?

    • 13 votes
    #1.22 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:45 AM EDT

    @America Today-Anthony

    They already do. Background check now include credit checks. Employers can opt not to hire you (or fire you) if you have a late payment.

    • 3 votes
    #1.23 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:49 AM EDT

    Whether his termination is justified or not depends on whether he presented his employer with paperwork from his doctor requesting the time off. If he did, then the employer is in the wrong as he is covered by FMLA, however, if he didn't present his employer with paperwork and just took the time off, then the firing is justified.

    Either way, if what he says is true, that his boss sent him discriminatory e-mails, I hope he either forwarded them to a personal e-mail account or printed them.

    • 4 votes
    #1.24 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:00 PM EDT

    lisa-3322183

    Careful your own soapbox is looking pretty lofty up there, care to take your own advice and step down. I'll provide the ladder for you,

    • 14 votes
    #1.25 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:13 PM EDT

    There is more to this story...line employees that work for the Fed. Gov. don't get fired over 1 incident...His supervisor doesn't have that power.

    • 9 votes
    #1.26 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:19 PM EDT
    Comment author avatargimmeabreakoradrink-1132383Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

    How is someone sharing ideas of sin and hellfire and more "harrassing" than modern gays and lesbians getting quite belligerant, vocal and bullying about their views on their lifestyle choices, hatred of the establishment of morals, or (MOST POIGNANTLY), mocking and angrily outing other bisexuals or gays?

    Just because some flaming, delusional gays came out to their parents or the entire world when 18 doesn't mean all with same feelings MUST or are OBLIGED to share sexuality with everyone.

    A**holes.

    • 5 votes
    #1.27 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:22 PM EDT

    Krestov - you're going to need a crane :)

    • 4 votes
    #1.28 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:23 PM EDT

    @lisa-3322183 I may not agree with you Lisa but I like your sense of humor!

    • 6 votes
    #1.29 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:28 PM EDT

    gimmeabreakoradrink-1132383

    That is the problem with the more activist fractions of both sides they tend to be the most vocal leaving the middle ground people to live with the consequences.

    Also small note on "lifestyle choice". A lifestyle choice is choosing to live in Seattle or NY for the lifestyle, a persons sexuality is an biologically ingrained immutable part of a human being.

    • 12 votes
    #1.30 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:34 PM EDT

    Now we know why those employers wanted your facebook account login! Religion has no place in any workplace. If it is mandantory for all to attend. We get closer and closer to the cliff with each passing day as Republicans who genuflest at the alter of religion sell us farther and farther down the the path that leads to the cliff of total domination by religious nut cases. The same thing that helped start this country. Fleeing Europe from religious prosecution. We have already established the new American Nobility. (the 1%) next it will be religious dictators in all aspects of our lives if we are stupid enough to keep voting the way we have been.

    • 5 votes
    #1.31 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:34 PM EDT

    He missed 37 days of work. This is an open and shut case... Fire him and any judge who overturns this is a moron.

    • 2 votes
    #1.32 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 1:53 PM EDT
    Comment author avatardirtydog200Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

    Sounds like this particular Sodomite was doing the right thing...staying in the closet. He should not have been fired! BTW Facebook is the new Big Brother snitch. I recommend everyone closing their FB accounts before you get in trouble for exercising your free speech rights. Big Brother is watching.

    • 2 votes
    #1.33 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 2:03 PM EDT

    Yeah, it's really not clear from the article whether or not the 37 days he missed were medical leave, as his therapist recommended. If not, I'm afraid he doesn't have much of a leg to stand on, which is unfortunate given the circumstances.

    • 1 vote
    #1.34 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 2:36 PM EDT

    I think it's really creepy that Employers think they have the right to sneak around an employees Face Book page and then use any info. they abtain to fire that employee..... This kind of behavior by any employer is despicable

      #1.35 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 2:40 PM EDT

      dirtydog200

      I guess if everyone who were different, to your good self, and hid themselves away it would make you happy.

      Well the world is a place of variety and difference and people don't have to hide themselves away. Your job is to live your life and life by your own moral compass that is your right. It is also the right for others to live by theirs.

      • 3 votes
      #1.36 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 2:58 PM EDT

      1.8 deleted, sharonhughes4me suggesting all 'Homo's' be driven from the planet. Banned, failed audition.

      sharonhughes4me

      • 7 votes
      #1.37 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 3:35 PM EDT

      If Lisa actually has a job - she is posting from work on the companies dime... chew on that one.

      Lisa; you don't seem to respect our laws - ever hear of Family Leave? No government/public job just fires you, and there is always a way to keep your job if you really want it. I failed a drug test (for pot, I used it for pain, now 20 years later pot is one of the best pain options out there - rednecks are so 30 seconds ago) and by admitting it up front (didn't try to hide or cover up my actions) and doing everything they asked of me, that being drug counseling (the councilor tried to set me up by asking why I didn't just find a job that allowed me to get away with smoking - had I shown any support of her words, she said I would have reached some number of questionable answers and would have been fired on her advice) I was able to keep my job.

      When you rule with your prejudices and ignore law, you are worse than that you detest. Maybe anger and a hair trigger are not good options... not that any of you ever stepped on your own private parts by thinking with emotions over logic.

      This boss went far and beyond his legal limits to fire this guy, if the fired guy tried to comply with the laws and regulations of our country - then Mr. Judgemental Religious dude is in deep dodo.

      • 2 votes
      #1.38 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 4:05 PM EDT

      As a lesbian - if the only thing this guy did regarding the harrassment was to take 37 consecutive days off - without getting approval for medical leave, then yes...he should be fired.

      PERIOD.

      It's entirely possible this article is misleading for a reason, because it never should have been suggested he got fired for liking something on facebook - THAT isnt why he got fired, it was the time off he took.

      And the article intentionally failed to explain whether or not he was approved for that time off, or if he just decided that was how HE was going to deal with the harrassment.

      I am hoping for the sake of this guy that he had approval to take medical leave, but something tells me he didnt.

      Just because someone treats you poorly doesnt mean to you evade all your own responsibilities and ability to do the right thing.

      • 6 votes
      #1.39 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 4:14 PM EDT

      Guess what kiddies? ANY company that doesn't have a employee handbook that clearly states what the rules are surronding the work place, don't have a leg to stand on in any court of law! This individual will win his case!

        #1.40 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 7:32 PM EDT

        NY company that doesn't have a employee handbook that clearly states what the rules are surronding the work place, don't have a leg to stand on in any court of law!

        @LIVE TO RIDE - unfortunately, while an employee must adhere to the employee handbook and can be fired for not doing so the employer does not have to do so and can fire an employee and/or act in other ways (i.e. retaliate against an employee except in the case of EEOC complaints) with impunity unless the office in which the company operates and the employee works are in a right to work state. That's not applicable in this case as the employer is the federal government and this is an EEOC/civil rights issue.

        • 1 vote
        #1.41 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 9:44 PM EDT

        I know Peter. he is a good guy. maybe his liberal leanings had a bit to do with it as well.

        • 1 vote
        #1.42 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:01 PM EDT

        Hey Tyler - you know, its ok for someone to hold an opinion that gays should be banned from the planet - it is JUST as valid an opinion than gays should be allowed into all aspects of life - I happen to believe that gays are just as loving and caring as anyone else - but if someone disagrees with that you should not ban someone because they disagree with YOUR personal political persuasion - or are you saying that MSNBC and Newsvine's corporate position is pro-gay? You see how that gets YOU in trouble now?

        As for the comments here - the following observations from 27 years of practicing labor law:

        1. It is unlikely to the point of incredulous that a federal government employee is being discriminated against for being gay . . . .

        2. every single case I have EVER done has resulted in the employee claiming s/he was the best employee in the department and the employer claiming they were the worst - it is pretty clear in almost 100% of the cases if there is a pretext for discrimination or if the employee's performance has dropped.

        3. The Feds have a pretty decent appeals process - and a claims process. If the gay man here could have proved even in the slightest that there was hint of discrimination his claim would not have been dismissed and right to sue letter issued to him on his request.

        4. Our gay employee here is going to have to prove that his boss knew 'almost immediately' that he posted to the two dads page and that his boss can find his profile on facebook and actually read it . . . .thats a pretty high burden of proof -

        Before you all run off half-cocked against me, I have two very good friends who are a 2 dad household and I see that they are some of the best parents I know. . . . and I support their right to adopt 100% . . .

          #1.43 - Mon Apr 16, 2012 12:25 PM EDT

          This sounds like a guy who was beginning to slack off at work, was reprimanded for the issues and then went crying to his therapist that working at that place is too stressful, my boss picks on me because i think he may have found out i'm gay, etc... Therapist tells him to take time off, 37 days later and he is puzzled as to why he was fired. For FMLA, the doctor must certify, in writing, that the patient is completely unable/disabled from performing their duties as it applies to their job. Over the course of 37 days dhy didn't the therapist come up with some coping skills for the employee to use in his daily interactions?. Did the therapist and the employee really believe that the time off would be indefinate? This is what we get when we allow junk science to overrule common sense. The pussification of America is in full swing. It's time to man up, even if you are gay and take personal responsibility and stop blaming lifestyle choices, race or any other pitiful excuse to justify ones rotten life. I believe Hank Hill called these folks, "Twig boys", apt reference. We have a country full of nancies, gay and straight and it's sickening. No wonder the previous generation just shakes their heads.

            #1.44 - Tue Apr 17, 2012 11:43 AM EDT
            Reply

            That is exactly why NO ONE should ever post anything personal on these social networks that can lead back to them. I refuse to even use Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, etc., and I don't have anything listed in my "profile" here on Newsvine.

            • 20 votes
            #2 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 7:45 AM EDT

            I agree, nothing personal should be posted on Facebook that can come back to haunt you, but in this instance, this man didn't post anything personal. He didn't mention his sexual orientation, or post nude photos of himself, or speak of sex, or speak ill of his employer, or threaten to blow up Congress for that matter. He simply stated that he liked a particular page in Facebook, the contents of which apparently offended his "religious" boss.

            • 41 votes
            #2.1 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 8:08 AM EDT

            Really? Really? That is what we should be forced to think and learn.......that in the United States of America people should be scared that expressing a non-work related personal opinion on their personal site can get them fired from their job?

            How about employers learning that they should ONLY make terminate, discipline or raise/promotion decisions based ON WORKPLACE PERFORMANCE!!!!

            In the United States of America, people are free to have a personal opinion and we should defend every persons right to have one outside the workplace without the fear of retribution from their employers. ALL organizations that discriminate, punish or terminate based on their personal opinions of an employees private life should be fines and or have their business permits revoked.

            • 34 votes
            #2.2 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 9:27 AM EDT

            I know it is against FB terms, but I keep two accounts. One for posting, and my real one, which I still barely use.

            For over 20 years, every security expert said, "don't use your real name when posting", and then along comes Facebook, which requires you to use your real name. That was not a problem until all these site started to use their social plugin for commenting. Now we have a big problem, and I suggest a fake account.

            • 15 votes
            #2.3 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 9:40 AM EDT

            even without FB, there are other ways his boss could have found out he was gay without the employee bringing it up directly so the FB reference is actually a distractor in this case. the crux of the issue and real evidence is those emails the boss sent that were not only of an inappropriately religious nature but can serve as substantiation that the sudden change in performance appraisals is related to the boss' bigotry and that the boss actively and overtly created a hostile work environment (which would be a mitigating and reasonably causal factor in any actual performance decrease)

            • 20 votes
            #2.4 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 9:51 AM EDT

            @KevinC

            If Facebook requires a real name, how do you have a fake account without your real name . . . as in Facebook requires a real name. What you have said makes no sense.

            • 2 votes
            #2.5 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:27 AM EDT

            Roger-785733, they require it by their "terms of service". That does not mean they put a mechanism in place to actually check that the terms are being followed.

            If they catch a fake account, they delete it.

            I hope that clarifies it.

            • 8 votes
            #2.6 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:31 AM EDT

            I don't give a rats azz who you are or where you work if there is a dink for a boss he/she will find a way to get rid of you if they wish

            just try to keep records of all meetings and then don't matter where it goes you have a leg to stand on [use a pocket recorder if you possible can]

            [I am a former litigator for a major union]

            • 5 votes
            #2.7 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:23 PM EDT

            I can understand not using a real name for these things. Believe it or not, Pvblivs Ignotivs Secretus is not my real name. But, to the matter at hand, if the 37 missed days were, in fact, due to such harassment (which had nothing to do with the job) then he should be reinstated and the supervisor, having acted very inappropriately, should be dismissed.

            This month Maryland became the first state to ban the practice of asking for a job candidate or worker's social networking password; and Illinois is considering similar legislation,...

            Why is this not already a federal law? Employers (along with everyone else) should only have access to public records. They should not be able to do the equivalent of putting a video-recorder in your bedroom. It's not their business.

            • 6 votes
            #2.8 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:29 PM EDT
            emanon71Deleted

            I agree with you...only exception to the rule will be if your job requires to you have a top secret clearance or higher but some serious waivers and other legal paperwork will be signed on what you can and can not be terminated on...need to protect free speech whether you area with what is being said or not..or better yet just change your privacy settings to friends and family only

              #2.10 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 1:24 PM EDT

              Amen to that Anti Trust Proponent!

                #2.11 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 1:45 PM EDT

                dear Ivan: there is something that you need to understand about free speach. Youj can say what you want, but there is nothing in the constitution that protects one from his/her own stupidity. If you worked for me, you have the right to say that I am a flaming d..bag. and I would have the right to fire you for that. Did you win by excercising your constitutional "right"? Seems to me you lose

                • 1 vote
                #2.12 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 1:53 PM EDT

                That is exactly why NO ONE should ever post anything personal on these social networks that can lead back to them.

                Sorry, but that's BS. Harassment based on sexual orientation is illegal, regardless of how the sexual orientation was revealed. There are other reasons not to post personal information on FB or other social sites, but fear of losing your job should not be one of them. What's the next step? Will your employers want to install surveillance cameras in your home to make sure your behavior meets with their approval 24/7? GPS ankle bracelets when you go on vacation? Are you familiar with the concept of "Big Brother?"

                I hope this guy kept those e-mails from his ex-boss.

                • 3 votes
                #2.13 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 2:22 PM EDT

                flbikerchick - agree w/your comment 100%. Sexual harrassment in workplace is inexcusable under any circumstances.

                Employers have gained to much control over our personal lives in the last 10 years.

                  #2.14 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 3:06 PM EDT

                  That is exactly why NO ONE should ever post anything personal on these social networks that can lead back to them.

                  and nobody should every say or do anything in public, or be with anyone else who says or does anything in public because someone you work with may see or hear about it and the boss may find out and the boss may not like that you're not his clone and. ..

                    #2.15 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 3:14 PM EDT
                    Reply

                    if these allegations are true..then his supervisor should be looking for alternate employment...although i don't get how just liking a page caused his employer to conclude he was gay...something is missing here

                    • 12 votes
                    Reply#3 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 7:52 AM EDT

                    He was checking on his employee and discovered the "like" page and put 2 and 2 together. The fired guy should have the bosses job and the boss should be gone. This religious PC crap makes me sick. If the guy isn't flaunting his sexuality at work then its not work's business.

                    • 30 votes
                    #3.1 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 8:03 AM EDT

                    Actually, he has every right to "flaunt" his sexuality at work, if by "flaunt", you mean "reveal". Straight people do this in the work place all the time. They talk about their spouses or partners, wear wedding rings, have photos of their kids on the wall, etc. Via these things, their sexuality is made quite clear. On the other hand, if by "flaunt" you mean wearing sexually suggestive clothing or talking about sex explicitly, then yes, I agree, but this applies to all employees.

                    • 35 votes
                    #3.2 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 8:12 AM EDT

                    Adam the PC way is to fire the boss and automatically assume the boss is in the wrong. Perhaps we should show some restraint and let the facts come out before we rush to judgement. The article says hes going to use religious reasons for his suit because it gets more money and has a better chance of winning, sounds like his motives also might be in question.

                    • 11 votes
                    #3.3 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 8:17 AM EDT

                    From the article: He said laws protecting workers against sexual orientation discrimination are limited and provide few, if any, remedies for compensating workers in cases like TerVeer's.

                    • 7 votes
                    #3.4 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 8:35 AM EDT

                    @square dude

                    TerVeer said he started to receive emails from Mech that contained ‘religiously motivated harassment and discrimination.’ Mech then called him into a meeting for the purposes of ‘educating him on hell and that it awaited him for being a homosexual.’

                    that email documentation would show the boss is wrong and out of line (and in violation of law). If you've been forced to take time off (especially time off w/o pay) and/or fired which will not only cause financial hardship for the duration of time w/o income and you may find it difficult to find another, etc. it makes sense to look for financial restitution. Since there is documentation that the religious reasons were at the root of the boss's actions (this wasn't just the boss constant making "fag" jokes and went well beyond regular hostile work environment issues), it has to be the crux of the case and it's a legitimate reason to want additional punitive action taken - the boss wasn't just violating EEOC, he was violating the employee's first amendment rights and I'll be honest with you, I think it's perfectly reasonable to use the argument that will provide a bigger payout when your civil rights have been violated by your employer and you've suffered emotional and financial hardship as a result of it.

                    • 17 votes
                    #3.5 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:02 AM EDT

                    So, if I worked for this guy, and he discovered I was Jewish, he would harass and fire me, too. These type of 'Christians' make me sick. That stuff does not belong at work.

                    • 17 votes
                    #3.6 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:32 AM EDT

                    fully agree with you square....seems there may be another motive and claiming harassment due to sexual orientation is the way to quick and easy money. from my experience some, NOT ALL, but some of the gay community sashay around the workplace purposely and intently trying to get the extra "attention" and ruffle feathers just looking for a golden opportunity like this. sadly more common than you would expect. "oh, he looked at me weird because i am gay so now i'm going to sue!"

                    i see this in the same light as the women who wear mini skirts so short that you can see pretty much everything and blouses cut so low you can see their navel but then scream sexual harassment if the wrong person notices....of course if the right person notices they get a promotion...

                    i think we need to hear both sides of this story before judgement is passed because i smell an opportunist in this story!

                    • 3 votes
                    #3.7 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:09 AM EDT

                    The article needs to clarify: did the employee not show up for 37 days, or was he on medical leave? If he was on medical leave, then he has yet another suit to file, because it is a requirement under FMLA that employers keep an employee's job intact and open for him (or one of equal status and pay) upon his return from leave if said employee has been on the job for more than 6 months. The religious harassment was a clear violation of the employee's first amendment rights, and the emails will prove it. The supervisor needs to be fired immediately, and should be included in the suit as well, he might also seek some counselling to learn to control his prejudicial and hateful rantings at those that disagree with his religious beliefs, or seek employment within his church.

                    • 3 votes
                    #3.8 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:21 AM EDT

                    Actually, protections for people under federal law for their sexaul orientation are VERY limited. Remember, technically at least, DOMA is still a valid federal law which every federal agency must follow. And there is not a part of title IX related to sexual orientation.

                    There are, however, some very strong protections based on religion. The supervisor messed up by going into Tea Party religious dogma. This guys lawyer was very smart in utilizing that aspect.

                    As to the days off, we don't know if this guy has worked long enough for FMLA to apply or if he requested time off under FMLA. However, IMO, once the supervisor had sufficient proof (in his mind) that the employee was gay, he just looked for an excuse to fire him.

                    Like any employer, the supervisor could easily have found sufficient alternate reasons to terminate the employee. The problem is, the supervisor indicated his true reasons, which were that the employee was gay and, by extension, not the right type of christian in this supervisor's warped mind.

                    Open mouth, insert lawsuit.

                    • 5 votes
                    #3.9 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:56 AM EDT
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                    This one reeks of discrimination.

                    Mech then called him into a meeting for the purposes of ‘educating him on hell and that it awaited him for being a homosexual.’

                    The "christians" that tell others why they are going to hell make me laugh.

                    I don't believe in God, heaven or hell but if they do exist I'll bet it's the intolerant bigots that will be in the majority populating the BBQ hotel.

                    • 29 votes
                    Reply#4 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 8:17 AM EDT

                    I hate it when people lie and say they're Christian when they're really just looking for an excuse to be an a-hole. If you're Christian you're supposed to try to act Christ-like. Jesus was big on helping others, not harassing them

                    • 14 votes
                    #4.1 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:49 AM EDT

                    Thank you both for this post agree w/you 100%

                    Personally, I am respective of everyone's religious beliefs, but I am tired of those Christians who spew damnation and more on gays/lesbians in this country and whine/cry when they say their religious rights are being denied. If they followed their own doctrine, they would realize jesus didn't ask someone if they were gay when saving their souls etc.

                    • 1 vote
                    #4.2 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 3:15 PM EDT

                    William & Its About Time,

                    I couldn't agree more. This is riduculous. We are supposed to accept and respect each other. I may not like or approve or practice various lifestyles, but, it is someone elses decision. I don't want anyone judging my lifestyle choices or how I spend my money etc (as long as it is harmful to none). There is no place for this kind of talk. I happen to believe we all answer for our behavior on this earth (Karma) and in the next (The Last Judgement), however, if you don't think the same, I will still respect you, try to understand your belief system and maybe even try to do it over a meal. Life is short. Relax. I hope this guy is okay, gets his job back and supervisor is retrained. Maybe someone will learn something from all of this.

                    • 1 vote
                    #4.3 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 4:04 PM EDT
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                    Wait till all the facts are available and then comment. None of us know the full story and speculation seems to bring out the worst in many as they use their own biases to make comments. I hope when a decision is made it will be posted here.

                    • 1 vote
                    Reply#5 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 8:56 AM EDT

                    that's what it's always been about Bob, expressing one's biases

                    • 1 vote
                    #5.1 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 9:31 AM EDT

                    Religion has no place in the workplace. A manager, or anyone with the power to hire and fire, shouldn't be able to impose their religious views on someone else. A person who doesn't work for a month isn't staying home because he wants to; it's because he has to in order to keep his mental sanity. Being bombarded with religious garbage at a time when he's trying to make a living would be enough for anyone to give up. This is called "we won't fire you because we know you will sue us, so we'll just make your life miserable until you quit." It is Horse Manure and it's happening more often than many people think.

                    Everyone has a right to work without religion in the workplace, unless you're working in a faith based operation. The Library of Congress is not a faith based operation. This man's lawsuit will be successful and he will have ended up a lottery winner because some religious heterosexual vigilante decided he didn't want a gay person in his midst.

                    I have never sued an employer for either orientation bias or religious bias, but I certainly could have. In every company I have ever worked for there was always at least one person who felt it was necessary to bring their religious ideals into the mix, and it was sickening. And it never failed, when religion was allowed to flourish at management meetings, anti-gay rhetoric soon followed and then suddenly I was always the outsider. Nevermind that I was the highest producing employee in my work unit, it didn't matter because I was queer. And after the day that I came out, no one would even speak to me. Suddenly, pamphlets talking about being "reborn" turned up on my desk when I'd get to work in the mornings, and phone calls from co-workers asking if I'd like to go to church with them to ask God for forgiveness. Forgiveness for what???

                    Looking back, I should have sued but instead went out on my own and became a serious player in my line of work. And again, I am the top producer in my own company and no one who works for me needs to fear being fired or harrassed over a religious undercurrent. My revenge for all of the stress and unnecessary bull that happened every day in the offices I worked in was to go out and be successful on my own. MY God, the God that I believe in, wanted me to.

                    And the ones who harrassed me? They still work a 9 to 5 for a paycheck. And me? I now own a yacht. Screw them.

                    • 26 votes
                    #5.2 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 9:37 AM EDT

                    Good on you Robert! They were probably more resentful of your superior work ethic, and the hypocrites went after your personal life, which was none of their business. I'm glad you're living large.

                    Brings to mind one of favorite expressions: "Living well is the best revenge!"

                    • 8 votes
                    #5.3 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:26 AM EDT

                    If this "guy" was at work and accessing his website on FB, then he should have been let go. If he'd been at home, maybe a different story. However, if you don't want something made public, don't do anything on FB or the other public accessible websites. End of story.

                    The boss should have to attend sensivitity training for sexual harrassment. Have his position downgraded, along with his salary. Both are equally responsible for this situation and outcome.

                    If the employee didn't apply for family leave or a leave of absence, shame on him. Just because the doctor suggested it, unless he files for it with HR dept. doesn't mean he can take 37 days with out consequences.

                      #5.4 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:12 AM EDT

                      Patraicia, you are ridiculous, a person should be fired for accessing their facebook page. They you should be fired for sending a personal email or taking a personal phone call at work. Or better yet any talk that is not work related should get you fired.

                        #5.5 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 1:00 PM EDT

                        Not to put to fine a point on this...but is FB access now a constitutionally protected right? Glad I do not and will never have a FB account. Social media is causing much more harm than good.

                          #5.6 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 1:54 PM EDT
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                          I believe that the real storyline here is that the smaller the footprint you have in this online digital world the better off you will be. I just do not understand why people feel the need to "gut themselves" online.

                          • 5 votes
                          Reply#6 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 9:18 AM EDT

                          The point of electronic social networks is socializing, communicating, and in this instance, this employee didn't "gut" himself on line. Suppose you favored giving citizenship to illegal aliens, and your right wing boss heard you say this and harassed you over it? Or suppose your atheist boss read a story in the paper about your involvement in your church, and did the same? None of us live in a vacuum. If we never post on electronic media at all, we still have thoughts and opinions that employers may become privy too, and we can suffer for them; not because our opinions are harmful, disrespectful or illegal, but because we HAVE them, and someone else doesn't LIKE them.

                          • 13 votes
                          #6.1 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 9:36 AM EDT

                          The point is that TerVeer held a private view and it was dscovered by his boss at work. That private view appears to have had no bearing on his performance nor did it come up in discussion at all. This came from someone snooping or invading TerVeers privacy that did not affect the workplace in any other way.

                          TerVeer will have to answer for his own actions in terms of missing work and if it was authorized or reported timely.

                          Regardless of the injustice done to TerVeer, you are always responsible for your own actions. You have to take the right steps to protect yourself even if things are not fair. TerVeer obviously had options for help ,but we don't know if he took them.

                          • 4 votes
                          #6.2 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:27 AM EDT

                          Todd-he did not hold a "private" view. If he did, and knows that posting on a social site is basically posting to the world, he would have kept it private and not posted. But he, like almost all teenagers and a large number of adults, think that they are entering a vaccum with only their "friends" allowed to enter.

                            #6.3 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 2:05 PM EDT

                            @headhunter22 -

                            But he, like almost all teenagers and a large number of adults, think that they are entering a vaccum with only their "friends" allowed to enter.

                            actually his "mistake" was assuming that his boss would be an adult and behave professionally. he shouldn't have had to worry that his boss finding out he was gay would impact his employment or cause him to be subjected to religious diatribes from his boss

                              #6.4 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 3:18 PM EDT

                              He pressed "like" on a page supporting LGBT rights and the boss took it upon himself to make the assumption that he was gay. It never says he was flaunting his sexuality...if he was, the boss would have figured it out long before the guy did something so innocuous as supporting a cause he believed in.

                              The boss took it upon himself to guide this person's personal life. Some of you sound like it says the guy was posting photos of himself in a velvet gown. No. He pressed "like". And even if he was posting photos of himself in a velvet gown, it's nobody's goddamn business but his own. Not that that should matter...if the guy wants to run around the streets of Washington, D.C. dressed like purple Jesus it shouldn't matter, he's not at work.

                              The problem with this society isn't social media, it's that people take it upon themselves to force another to accept their own skewed, little truths.

                              • 1 vote
                              #6.5 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 4:21 PM EDT
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                              He "liked" a page about two-dads. What's his boss doing looking at that page, or who this employee "likes."

                              Sounds like and looks like "boss" will get some much needed time off from work too, permanently.

                              Sending emails to employees about your religious beliefs, or their religious beliefs, is a definite violation of rights.

                              Telling an employee he will go to hell, when he already works in Washington DC, is a sign of major clue-less-ness.

                              • 14 votes
                              Reply#7 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 9:21 AM EDT

                              That's why I would never friend a work associate, even if you're fiends. George Costanza had it right when he kept his work life and private life separate.

                              • 5 votes
                              #7.1 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:29 AM EDT

                              Easy for him to do. George Costanza didn't really have a work life OR a private life.

                              • 3 votes
                              #7.2 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:22 PM EDT
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                              If the 37 consecutive days were NOT an authorized medical leave? Then I'd say there was grounds for a termination (that's abandonment at that point). But, if the leave was therapist-recommended and approved by the LoC? Then the superior who fired this man will have much to answer for.

                              But if he was fired over facebook preferences? That would also infringe upon his 1st Amendment Rights, I'd imagine. I'm straight, but my wife and I believe in (and have voted for) GLBT causes; if someone were to take that information and presume either my wife or myself were gay? They'd be mistaken... ;-)

                              But it sounds like the 37 day absence was probably not authorized, hence the termination.

                              • 5 votes
                              Reply#8 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 9:22 AM EDT
                              GeezCooDeleted

                              Homophobes in high places are dangerous.

                              • 12 votes
                              Reply#10 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 9:37 AM EDT

                              Homophobes in high places are dangerous.

                              • 9 votes
                              Reply#11 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 9:37 AM EDT

                              Time to fire the Christian Taliban.

                              Enough Reich Wing bible banging and religous hatred, it has NO PLACE in our secular government.

                              Maybe we shold start firing THEM if we catch them reading the bible or talking about their "beliefs" on the job.

                              • 13 votes
                              Reply#12 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 9:48 AM EDT

                              This is just a case of somebody not doing their job, then finding a reason why somebody else is responsible for their problem. There are channels available to deal with these issues outside of just not showing up for work. This guy is just looking for a free ride.

                              • 3 votes
                              #12.1 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:04 AM EDT

                              That's why he had years of good performance reviews until his boss started telling him he was going to hell.... Free ride indeed....

                              • 6 votes
                              #12.2 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:21 AM EDT

                              Already been tried, Bob-3241043, none of the communist regimes in history would put up with that. You'd fit right in, lock step with the Nazis with that attitude, Bob.

                              • 2 votes
                              #12.3 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:29 AM EDT

                              Thanks Bob for the comment and post. I agree 100%. Religion does not belong in our workplace, our government, public schools, or basically anything that receives my tax dollars.

                              Villan157 - Then you are going against the first amendment of the United States Constitution. That is not a Nazi or Communist document the last time I checked now was it? Problem we have here, is Fascist Republicans know their base is the Christian right.. and they have to server those campaign donators well.

                                #12.4 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 3:23 PM EDT
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                                I think this guy is just making this all up about be fired from a face book "like" comment.

                                • 5 votes
                                Reply#13 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:01 AM EDT

                                I think this guy is just making this all up about be fired from a face book "like" comment.

                                • 2 votes
                                Reply#14 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:02 AM EDT

                                This should be a warning to all of you social freaks...the rest pf us really don't care about your life but if you put it out there there may be negative consequences...I personally don't get this habit of telling others about your pathetic miserable lives...we don't care

                                • 3 votes
                                Reply#15 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:02 AM EDT

                                He only e of the pressed the like buitton on a story. It is his private life and none of his employers business what he does on time away. It wasn't a crime to press the like button and what is his employer doing anyway chasing him around on Facebook?

                                • 5 votes
                                #15.1 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:29 AM EDT

                                Till the social freak appears as one of your family, your child, grandchild, great grandchild ... then maybe you'll care. What one sows, so shall they reap.

                                • 5 votes
                                #15.2 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:32 AM EDT

                                Until when should sharing your opinion outside of the work environment (in whatever environment - social media, print media, or other outlets) be grounds for termination? Yes, it does happen, but it shouldn't. And people like you who think that termination is just some natural consequence of sharing your thoughts, beliefs, and attitudes in a public forum outside of the work environment are part of the problem.

                                I think a lot of this intrusion into personal spaces by employers is reflective of our economy - supervisors and employers know that employees are easily replaced, so some will fire their employees for just as much as holding beliefs and attitudes they're not comfortable with.

                                • 1 vote
                                #15.3 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:09 PM EDT

                                So, let me guess, Rick. You tried FB and no one would "friend" you, would they?

                                  #15.4 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 2:30 PM EDT
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                                  What does sexual orientation have to do with decency? Was Hitler gay? In case anything happens to my wife and I that leaves our children orphaned we have nominated my brother who is gay and his partner as guardians of the children. They are great people who love their nephews and niece very much. Thanksgivings are spent at their house where our family gathers for two or three days and nights. Christmas is at my house house or my other brother's home. Saying it is wrong to love anyone is wrong. Souls are gender free entities. Matthew 22:30 "At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven."

                                  • 14 votes
                                  Reply#16 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:03 AM EDT

                                  Praise God for people like you! Truer words could not be said! You represent CHRISTIANITY in it's purest. So many so-called Christians, condemn, discriminate, and crucify in the name of Jesus. Look at the Vatican's campaign against Gays. Look at their declining membership. The younger generation are much more educated about Gays being BORN Gay, created by God that way, and will not tolerate all the hate by narrow minded older people... what one sows, so shall they reap.

                                  • 5 votes
                                  #16.1 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:27 AM EDT

                                  Christians should love- no doubt about that. They shouldn't hate people (regardless of their race,gender,sexual orientation)- no doubt about that. The Vatican and many religions are full of hate and have killed many innocent people "in the name of Christ" - no doubt about that.

                                  Homosexuality is condemned in the bible. - No doubt about that.

                                  TRUE Christians do not practice homosexuality, nor do they hate or discriminate those who does.

                                  • 1 vote
                                  #16.2 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:00 PM EDT

                                  BG, there are a lot of other things mentioned in the Bible that are sins, and some are mentioned a lot more than homosexuality. A big one - greed - is entrenched in the capitalist structure in the US, but you don't hear most Christians, especially conservative Christians, talking about that!

                                  Besides, even if homosexuality is a sin (and I think that the context of statements condemning homosexual conduct in the Bible can be debated by Christians even if you believe, as I do, that the Bible is the word of God), the Bible also says that "for all have sinnned and fall short of the glory of God." So even if homosexuality is a sin, it is completely incorrect statement that you cannot be gay and a "true Christian." Let's be for real...the church is full of sinners of all stripes.

                                  • 3 votes
                                  #16.3 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:18 PM EDT

                                  BG, you can truly say that homosexuality is a 'practice'? Really?

                                    #16.4 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 1:58 PM EDT
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                                    Comment author avatarWow-3058090Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

                                    Let's re-write the article as it probably happened. Guy working for Library of Congress sits on his ass all day playing on the internet. Boss catches him and gives him a hard time. Guy says I am gay, you can't fire me for playing on Facebook. Boss says yeah right and threatens to fire him if he doesn't get to work. Guy says but I am gay and goes to therapist whinning about having to work. Therapist listens and guy says he needs to take 37 days off. Gets fired. Now a victim of work abuse wants to sue. Go figure. Will probably win and get his crappy job back that he hates in the first place. How is this even a real news story.

                                    • 7 votes
                                    Reply#17 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:08 AM EDT

                                    "How is this even a real news story."

                                    Your version ISN'T a news story, and your opinion as to what "probably happened" is just that, an opinion. You could twist ANY news story around: "This is what probably happened: Zimmerman fired his gun at a rabid squirrel, and Treyvon Martin ran into the bullet intentionally because he wanted to end his life."

                                    Do you rewrite ALL news stories to "prove" to readers that they are false and to make the "real" events coincide with your prejudices or dislikes?

                                    • 5 votes
                                    #17.1 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:55 AM EDT

                                    Wow...did you even read the article? The guy had good performance reviews up until the Facebook incident. Sure doesn't sound like some slacker that sat around all day playing on the Internet. Unless you're clairvoyant and somehow are privy to the "real" story.

                                    "How is this even a real news story."

                                    That made-up biased conjecture that you just wrote isn't a real news story, but the original article sure is.

                                    • 2 votes
                                    #17.2 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:22 PM EDT
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                                    He should have pursued legal action immediately after his supervisor took him to task for being homosexual and "educated" him on the hell that awaits in the afterlife....that right there is a million dollar lawsuit. You don't just stay home for over a month and say you're stressed out, unless it was approved FMLA leave, i'd say they had every right to fire him. But not dress him down for being homosexual, of course.

                                    • 3 votes
                                    Reply#18 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:13 AM EDT

                                    Trust me when I say not only does he have wrongful termination rights, he also doesn't need to use any type of leave. He's entitled to continuation of pay. Mangement refused to let me work until they had something from my psychiatrist saying my bi-polar disorder was under control. I didn't have bi-polar disorder. I also didn't have a psychiatrist.When it was settled, I was given continuation of pay. That means I not only didn't have to use any leave, I also continued accrueing leave while I was off.

                                      #18.1 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 1:30 PM EDT

                                      Based on what facts are in this story, I'm still trying to figure out what kind of crack this man's boss was smoking. Honestly, in this day and age, and working for the Federal Gov....well, if the boss is too dumb to figure out even the basic rights of the employees, then he's simply too DUMBazz to even hold that job.

                                      What kind of rock does the man live under? One's personal views on homosexuality are just that...personal views. They have NO bearing on the person's ability to do his job. If there is something else to the story..as in, the man simply failed to report for work without even calling anyone, then yeah, that's a HUGE problem.

                                        #18.2 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 1:57 PM EDT
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                                        Really?! Having to take 37 days off of work because of the stress caused by your supervisor lecturing you on hell and sending you an email. Really?! Grow a pair, dude. You weren't fired for being gay; you were fired for being a panty waist and claiming mental duress due to said activity.

                                        • 8 votes
                                        Reply#19 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:17 AM EDT

                                        Bull, big, tough jock guy. You know nothing of the work conditions that this person endured, the stress that he was under, his interaction with his boss or fellow employees, or other problems that he may have been dealing with. I once had a bad experience with a boss, filed a union grievance, and things dragged on for WEEKS. My grievance was honored, but I had to WORK with this jerk boss while things got sorted out, there was MUCH stress and pressure, and I damn well DID use whatever time off I could.

                                        If this guy had sick or personal time due him, he had every RIGHT to use it in this situation, and as he had been deemed a good employee, he likely did. Since you're not a "panty waist", you'd do what? Punch your unbending, unreasonable boss in the face? Commit suicide like a real man? Or quit a job that you had a right to even though your boss was at fault?

                                        • 4 votes
                                        #19.1 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:07 PM EDT
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                                        Why can't all people just get along no matter what your orientation is. That is what Jesus taught. Love your neighbor and your enemies, no matter what. To bad a lot of society does not have the same attitude. If they did this whole world would be a better place to live. Do you HEAR me Evangelical Christians. Better yet do you HEED Jesus' words?

                                        • 4 votes
                                        Reply#20 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:17 AM EDT

                                        Again we don't have all the facts. Just what the terminated employee alleges. Every one who has ever been fired always blames it on someone else.

                                          Reply#21 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:18 AM EDT

                                          That's gay.

                                          • 1 vote
                                          Reply#22 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:18 AM EDT
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                                          Well if you have boss as a "friend" on Facebook and you have your profile set up to be viewed by anyone its your own fault. I won't even list the co that I work for on facebook just to be on the safe side.

                                          • 2 votes
                                          Reply#23 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:21 AM EDT

                                          Harassment is always the fault of the person doing the harassing.

                                          • 1 vote
                                          #23.1 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 2:32 PM EDT
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                                          They both were in the wrong. My OPINION is this, the boss should not have done what he done. The fired employee should not have taken off 37 consecutive days. Who takes off 37 days? He should have just quit and turned it in. This smells like he played it this way to sue. People need to get it together. The "boss" should have kept his opinions to himself, instead of being rude and inconsiderate. They are both wrong in my eyes!

                                          • 2 votes
                                          Reply#24 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:22 AM EDT

                                          37 days off because of a stressful work situation over something unrelated to work, done by management is nothing. He doesn't even need to use leave. The supervisor is liable for creating a stressful work environment. The supervisor is subject to termination of employment. He can also be sued because of his actions. Personally, I would have requested to see my union rep, the second that this happened, after which I would have gone to the doctor to get help for the strees created by the supervisor.

                                            #24.1 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 1:21 PM EDT
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                                            If he sues, he is suing the Federal Government and we will have to foot the bill if he wins.

                                            • 5 votes
                                            Reply#25 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:22 AM EDT

                                            Awwww....poor "us". Better to let discrimination occur in government institutions than burden the taxpayer.

                                              #25.1 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:15 PM EDT

                                              Bravo, Nik!!

                                                #25.2 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:59 PM EDT
                                                Comment author avatarKillThemGaysExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

                                                If these fags cant get their head on straight ship them to Auschwitz and turn the gas back on!

                                                  #25.3 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 3:15 PM EDT

                                                  KillThemGays banned, working a genocide gimmick, calling for all 'fags' to be murdered.

                                                  Comment below deleted, Ted Arizona continuing a string of slurring gay folks as ' fudge packers' and 'a minice to society'. You're suspended for a month for violating #5 of the Code of Honor.

                                                  • 2 votes
                                                  #25.4 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 3:38 PM EDT
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                                                  THis is why I don't really care for social medis sites. At the same time, unless you are in a sensitive job that requires security clearance, it should be illegal for any company to ask to see your social networking sites. These sites can be protected from view for your privacy and your friends/family.

                                                  Conmpanies could be opening themselves up to liability as well. Say a woman opens up her website to an employer, and she announced that she was pregnant to family before telling her employer because she was maybe only two months pregnant at that point. Subsequently, that woman is terminated. Now you have a lawsuit because it could be reasonably argued that the employer fired her for prejudice, even if it had no bearing or wasn't seen. This is completely an invasion of privacy and companies are basically forcing themselves into your home and pricvate life for no reason other than paranoia.

                                                    Reply#27 - Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:23 AM EDT
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